(Also see collected vandwelling words of wisdom in the RVwiki)
People who say “What you want is…” don’t care what you want.
The loudest voices are often useless or even counterproductive.
People who don’t write clearly typically don’t think clearly.
hierarchy of bullshit
From most helpful to least helpful:
- experts - people who understand a subject and discuss it
- introverts (tie) - people who understand a subject but don’t discuss it
- laymen (tie) - people who don’t understand a subject but don’t discuss it
- blowhards - people who don’t understand a subject but bullshit about it
helping people execute a Bad Idea
Often a form of the x/y problem, and rarely ends well.
- OP wants help doing something that is technically possible, but usually not done for reasons of practicality, complexity, required expertise, etc (i.e. a Bad Idea).1 Normal solutions are brought up but dismissed by OP.
- since they lack understanding, OP requires extensive handholding to get the Bad Idea in place
- even if the Bad Idea works to some degree issues of practicality, complexity, and required expertise remain
- OP complains to source of help that the Bad Idea it isn’t working the way they expected.2
- Repeat steps 2-4 until someone gives up.
- time, effort and money are wasted
- nobody is happy
Whenever someone starts a sentence with the words “As a…” there is a good chance the rest of the sentence will be some self-serving tribal BS.
As Eisenhower said, beware the wedding-kids-mortgage-divorce-childsupport-legal-industrial complex. I may be mis-remembering exactly what he said. but I think that was the gist.
Solar-only charging is expensive. Solar augmented with another form of charging can be cheap and effective.
Solar generators are convenience products.
Building your own camper means you know where everything is, why it’s there, and how it works.
You don’t need a fancy vehicle or build to get started.
Custom, when used in a pre-owned item, means “the way someone else wanted it”. It doesn’t mean “something you should value or pay more for.”
“Renolgy” is a shibboleth useful for detecting low-information posters. It’s a cognitive error, not a typo: “I can see the two words in front of me and don’t see the difference”. Do not take solar advice from someone who cannot accurately copy down the name of the equipment.
“Learn how to fail efficiently” – Devin Townsend
“It was the weakness of a moment with a lifelong penalty attached. – Thomas Hardy, Jude the Obscure.
“Abusers are the angler fish of humanity - they dangle a bright glowing ball of love in front of you so you don’t see the teeth in the dark.” /u/silentgreen85
“When you’re wearing rose colored glasses, red flags just look like flags.” - anon
“A gift is not an apology – it is a reward for accepting shitty behaviour.” /u/particularshadeofblu (I’d say payment rather than reward)
“When narcissists behave in an exhibitionistic manner, they are seeking the same sort of admiration as toddlers, and for the same reasons. They want attention. Some examples include inappropriate dress, talking too loudly, or gesturing in expansive and space-intruding ways.” – Mark Ettensoh n
There are no solutions. There are only trade-offs. ― Thomas Sowell, A Conflict of Visions
The problem isn’t that Johnny can’t read. The problem isn’t even that Johnny can’t think. The problem is that Johnny doesn’t know what thinking is; he confuses it with feeling. ― Thomas Sowell
When people get used to preferential treatment, equal treatment seems like discrimination. ― Thomas Sowell
One of the consequences of such notions as ‘entitlements’ is that people who have contributed nothing to society feel that society owes them something, apparently just for being nice enough to grace us with their presence. ― Thomas Sowell
The fact that so many successful politicians are such shameless liars is not only a reflection on them, it is also a reflection on us. When the people want the impossible, only liars can satisfy. ― Thomas Sowell
Reminds me of the timeless saying “you can lead a horse to water, and then you have to flatter his fragile feelings so he’ll drink, because that’s now your job for some reason.” – @zathripieleg
“Let us speak courteously, deal fairly, and keep ourselves armed and ready.” - President Theodore Roosevelt, San Francisco, California , May 13, 1903
Many are destined to reason wrongly; others, not to reason at all; and others, to persecute those who do reason. — Voltaire